Support for Mentors: everything you need to know before you start
- Pillars Ka Pou Whakahou
- 3 days ago
- 3 min read
“The consistency of kindness and care that the Pillars staff show in all our interactions makes me feel valued. This to me is the most important thing.” – Current Mentor

We know becoming a mentor can feel like a big step. You might be wondering:
What will my relationship with my mentee be like?
What if I don’t know what to do or say?
Will I have support?
The truth is you don’t have to have all the answers.
Mentoring is a deeply rewarding and transformative experience. But it’s also meant to be fun and full of connection. From the moment you sign up through to your weekly hangouts, you’ll have a strong support system at every step.
Mentor Orientation
“The orientation was super good… very informative, eye-opening on what to expect.”
Before you meet a mentee, you’ll go through a full mentor orientation. This is where you'll:
meet your amazing mentoring coordinators
learn what to expect
get guidance around safety and confidentiality
gain practical tools to help you build a great relationship with your buddy.
It’s also a great chance to connect with others on the same journey.
“I found the training they delivered to be exemplary… and the group activities consistently run by them (Pillars mentoring team)….another standout is the clarity around roles, so there is no expectation or confusion... I think that's really pivotal to the programme being successful.” – Current Mentor
The Matching Process
The Mentor Community Around You
What You Really Gain from Mentoring
“I just hope our experience inspires others to become mentors — to have an open heart and see how impactful this can be for rangatahi.” - Current Mentor
When you become a mentor with Pillars Ka Pou Whakahou, you become part of something much bigger.
You gain:
A one-of-a-kind relationship with your mentee
A community of mentors who truly get it
Consistent support and connection from a dedicated team
Memories and fun that last a lifetime
“The enjoyment I get from spending time with young people, and the supportive environment created by the mentors and staff — it’s something special.”
Curious about becoming a mentor?
You don’t have to decide today. Just start by chatting with us.
Whether you’re ready to take the next step or still exploring, we’re here to walk with you.
Sign up to learn more about becoming a mentor here.
Watch the 5-minute information video.
Fill out the quick Expression of Interest form to chat with us.